Life Lessons from Sis Bf
Yupp that's the title, my sister boyfriend came to our house today and we talked a lot about life and also about school. He is a very knowledgeable person. I did talked a lot to him and I really gained quite a fair bit of knowledge from him, in life and in work. Not everyone at his age are able to understand the life values etc. I am a person who is not very clear what I wanted from the start and I need help from people to guide me along on which path should I take. I am the type of person who will follow the decision given by someone else. However, after talking to him, I realise that I am always inside the small box that I have created for myself and have yet to step out of it. Reason being I am afraid that If I step out of it, I might fall hard.
I realise that there is always a reason when something happened. I always cry when I did not do well for a test. But crying doesn't help. The reason I did not do well was because I did not understand the topic well enough. I was not able to grasp the concept clearly.
I came to realise that in life, we have to make our own decision, no one out there can make the decision for you. You have the to choice to choose which path you want to take. You have the choice to decide what you want to do. You have the choice to choose from the choices given. You have the choice to choose even if your parents make the decision for you.
Now the question here is: I don't know what to choose from
Answer given: Choose what you like doing and enjoy doing. Nothing is easy at first. There are bound to have challenges and obstacles along the way, but it's your choice whether you want to overcome it. Overcome it and you are one step closer to your destination. Do the reverse and you will see yourself stuck in the same position and not make any progression. In life, it's whether you want or you don't want. Want it, then do it. Don't want then leave it. Do what you like and you do it well, you will be rewarded. I'm stepping out from my own box, taking on the challenges that are ahead of me, don't fear of the consequence cause you know that you have already put in effort and your effort will pay off.
That's what I've learnt. I understand myself much better now =)
I realise that there is always a reason when something happened. I always cry when I did not do well for a test. But crying doesn't help. The reason I did not do well was because I did not understand the topic well enough. I was not able to grasp the concept clearly.
I came to realise that in life, we have to make our own decision, no one out there can make the decision for you. You have the to choice to choose which path you want to take. You have the choice to decide what you want to do. You have the choice to choose from the choices given. You have the choice to choose even if your parents make the decision for you.
Now the question here is: I don't know what to choose from
Answer given: Choose what you like doing and enjoy doing. Nothing is easy at first. There are bound to have challenges and obstacles along the way, but it's your choice whether you want to overcome it. Overcome it and you are one step closer to your destination. Do the reverse and you will see yourself stuck in the same position and not make any progression. In life, it's whether you want or you don't want. Want it, then do it. Don't want then leave it. Do what you like and you do it well, you will be rewarded. I'm stepping out from my own box, taking on the challenges that are ahead of me, don't fear of the consequence cause you know that you have already put in effort and your effort will pay off.
That's what I've learnt. I understand myself much better now =)
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