COLD WAR...
The situation goes like this:
My eldest sister wanted to stay overnight at the chalet. However, my parent did not allow. Therefore, my sister just packed her bag and leaves the house. She stayed at the chalet for 2 nights and returned home on Thursday noon.
My dad and I text her to come back home, my mum was calling her phone like mad to get her back. Then it was late midnight so my dad let her stayed for a night there because he said that by the time she got home it would be very dark and late.
The next day, my dad and I text her again to tell her to come home, but to no avail.... My mum was on the verge of anger that she almost called the police because my sister stayed overnight without parents’ permission. She complains everything to me....
Now, my mum has not talked to my sister since this happened, I think my sister talked to my dad but my dad was also pissed-off and never talk much.
So you may wonder what situation am I in right?? Well... I am actually in a very difficult situation. Why? I'll explain okay here goes...
When my sister was not around, my mum complains lots of things to me so to conclude what she said:
My mum point of view:
My mum did not allow my sister to stay because she is afraid that other people will take advantage of her. My mum is also not comfortable with the types of friends that my sister is with. My sister said that she is going with her boyfriend, hence my mum is even more worried... She mentions that she didn't allowed us to stay overnight is for our own good because they are worried about us, they are trying to protect us from any harm, when we grow up and become a mum, we will then experience the same situation that I'm mentioning right now. This whole cycle will then repeat itself. She is worried for us.
My sister point of view:
My sister is officially 20 and she thinks that they are protecting her in a way too protecting manner, not letting her to stay overnight for chalet is like -_-
she mentions that she is like 20 and cannot even stay overnight?? My sister even promised that she would take care of herself and also not sleep so that they won't be special things happening. She also promised that she would get back on Thursday noon
Okay I'm in a difficult position because; I have to listen to what my mum complains about my sister. Then I also have to listen to what my sister say about my mum! I didn't say that I do not want to hear what your thought are it's just that I partly agreed to what both of them have to say.
I agree with my sister that we must treasure our young age because as we go older, we might not be able to enjoy or regret not doing some of the things when we were young. Well... I also agree with my mum that they are not letting us to stay overnight because they are afraid of our safety, our security. They are worried about us.
Today my mum and I talked in the library and we brought out this topic again. I can tell that is was on the verge of tears because her voice was shaky and her eyes were watery... I feel how she feels. I also feel how my sister has felt when my parents ignored them.... I don't know what to do.... so now do you see the difficult situation that I'm in?
I just hope that both of them would just talk again ...... Please do talk to each other...
My eldest sister wanted to stay overnight at the chalet. However, my parent did not allow. Therefore, my sister just packed her bag and leaves the house. She stayed at the chalet for 2 nights and returned home on Thursday noon.
My dad and I text her to come back home, my mum was calling her phone like mad to get her back. Then it was late midnight so my dad let her stayed for a night there because he said that by the time she got home it would be very dark and late.
The next day, my dad and I text her again to tell her to come home, but to no avail.... My mum was on the verge of anger that she almost called the police because my sister stayed overnight without parents’ permission. She complains everything to me....
Now, my mum has not talked to my sister since this happened, I think my sister talked to my dad but my dad was also pissed-off and never talk much.
So you may wonder what situation am I in right?? Well... I am actually in a very difficult situation. Why? I'll explain okay here goes...
When my sister was not around, my mum complains lots of things to me so to conclude what she said:
My mum point of view:
My mum did not allow my sister to stay because she is afraid that other people will take advantage of her. My mum is also not comfortable with the types of friends that my sister is with. My sister said that she is going with her boyfriend, hence my mum is even more worried... She mentions that she didn't allowed us to stay overnight is for our own good because they are worried about us, they are trying to protect us from any harm, when we grow up and become a mum, we will then experience the same situation that I'm mentioning right now. This whole cycle will then repeat itself. She is worried for us.
My sister point of view:
My sister is officially 20 and she thinks that they are protecting her in a way too protecting manner, not letting her to stay overnight for chalet is like -_-
she mentions that she is like 20 and cannot even stay overnight?? My sister even promised that she would take care of herself and also not sleep so that they won't be special things happening. She also promised that she would get back on Thursday noon
Okay I'm in a difficult position because; I have to listen to what my mum complains about my sister. Then I also have to listen to what my sister say about my mum! I didn't say that I do not want to hear what your thought are it's just that I partly agreed to what both of them have to say.
I agree with my sister that we must treasure our young age because as we go older, we might not be able to enjoy or regret not doing some of the things when we were young. Well... I also agree with my mum that they are not letting us to stay overnight because they are afraid of our safety, our security. They are worried about us.
Today my mum and I talked in the library and we brought out this topic again. I can tell that is was on the verge of tears because her voice was shaky and her eyes were watery... I feel how she feels. I also feel how my sister has felt when my parents ignored them.... I don't know what to do.... so now do you see the difficult situation that I'm in?
I just hope that both of them would just talk again ...... Please do talk to each other...
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